WHY WOMEN DO NOT SUPPORT OTHER WOMEN

 "Why do women not support other women?!" This was me disgusted by what I saw on the internet and thus the reason behind this post. Let me explain everything in detail with the intention that this will spark an attitude change in a woman to truly have the back of another sister and TRULY MEAN IT.

Some weeks ago, we had this numerous video productions by many YouTubers about two women having dispute or let's say misunderstanding. It was so sad to see how onlookers (other women YouTubers) decided to take advantage of the incident by taking sides for those who dislike one of the late ladies involved. 

The worse of all was that opportunists decided to have financial gain from it by taking advantage of the views from YouTube without even pausing for a moment to think about mediating!

My heart broke to see women talk badly about other women. I feel we have enough as women to deal with. Especially from the patriarchal culture where we are from. Women go through undeserved stress, prejudice, and tension. It is only nice that we as women lighten the load on ourselves.

Sadly, it seems some women take pleasure in seeing other women suffer or fail. I couldn’t understand why they do this so I decided to research about it. Let’s see some reasons why women do not support other women:

√Some women let their unconscious biases and fears stand in the way of seeing another lady as a friend worthy of love and THEY DON'T EVEN REALIZE THEY'RE ARE DOING IT.

POINDER POINT🤔When you feel jealous of other women, find yourself gossiping, or wanting to take away from another woman’s success, ask yourself, “Where have I gone astray from allowing and pursuing my own aspirations and what do I need to do to get back on my own side?” It’s about you and your path. It’s not about her.  

✓The ultimate Queen Bee is the successful woman who instead of using her power to help other women advance, undermines her women colleagues.  We become so focused on climbing the ladder that we forget that there’s room for more than one at the top. We work so hard to break down barriers but end up isolating ourselves in the process.

PONDER POINT 🤔Remember that not everything is a competition. One person’s success does not equal another person’s failure. We are stronger together, working with each other, not against.

 A PIECE OF ADVICE FROM A LADY TO ANOTHER

Respect yourself GIRL

It starts with self respect. That's the most important thing that you can do. Know your value, your worth, your potential. Have confidence in your abilities and banish all thoughts of self-doubt. Know that you have the power to enact change not only in your life, but in the lives of others. Support yourself in the same way you would support others.

NOW OUR ASSIGNMENT AS LADIES

Let us ACTIVELY support and VERBALLY sponsor and uplift other women in the workplace. Now. Today. 

Let us uplift one another and make EACH OTHER SHINE BRIGHT!

Let's draw attention to the women trying, working, excelling, fighting, and scraping their way to do great things!

Seek to support other women and build successes together. Be a champion not only for yourself, but for as many other women as possible.

I MADE A VIDEO APPRECIATING AND TALKING ABOUT OTHER WOMEN. CLICK ON THE LINK BELOW TO WATCH 👇