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BEING A WOMAN :THE TRUE DEFINITION OF A WOMAN


We live in a world that teaches girls to place more value on their physical appearance than their intellectual abilities and talents.
We’ve been defined by our sexuality, attractiveness and beauty.


Where being ambitious, intelligent and assertive as a lady is not only seen as arrogance but also as a threat to having a happy home or finding true love.

We have been told to fit into the limiting societal expectation as if being a woman is a crime.
We are being applauded for letting our dreams fade in front of our eyes while we so passionately fan the desires of the other sex.

We’ve been told to put up with inhumane acts and abuses of various kinds because we want to have a false sense of being patient and virtuous.

We have allowed our bodies to be an object of sexual satisfaction for males.


But the truth is that we cannot be put in a box. We were conceived in the mind of God and endowed with so much beauty and richness beyond our widest imaginations. In us lies the spirit and power to transform the world for the better. 

By embracing our uniqueness, we rekindle the liberating will to awaken the slumbering giant in us and give ourselves the permission to live life fully, deeply, and to the truest expression of ourselves.

Our true identity, value and worth lies in unleashing the power in us with our personalities, emotions, smiles, gentle touch, heart of gold, soothing voice. As women, we owe the world the responsibility to allow our flowers blossom, our lights shine and our beauties used the right way. 

Give yourself the permission to be the girl who loves to use her voice to change life, to savour the moments she’s in the kitchen doing what she loves, in a formal gathering presiding over a meeting. Do what you love. Live life to the fullest. Don’t be afraid to dream big. Don’t settle for less.  Raise your standards.

History chronicles the inspiring examples of women like Sojourner Truth, Margeret Fuller, Mother Theresa, Rosa Parks , Maya Angelou who took powerful steps of raising their standards. The same power is available to you freely if you have the courage to claim it.
Changing the limiting societal beliefs and expectation of you as a woman begins with the simple step of changing yourself.

Don’t fit into the limiting socially constructed beliefs. Be intentional about being unique, being you, being assertive, a cause for positive change, own your voice and walk with your head held high.

BE YOUR OWN KIND OF WOMAN DEVOID OF SOCIETAL INFLUENCE.

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